The rate at which ladies are abused in relationships is quite ALARMING!!!
According to Global Statistics, 1 in 3 females is at risk of physical, sexual, emotional and psychological violence. This is quite disturbing, but guess WHAT? It doesn’t have to be you. Pheeeeww!!!
Do you know you can have a healthy, beautiful and purposeful relationship without the regular pangs of regret that a lot of people experience in their relationships and ultimately marriages? Yes! Yes! Yes! You most definitely can! Many times, the signs of potential abuse are glaring, and though we see these signs, we simply dismiss them.
This book is a useful tool in the hands of young ladies to help them identify potential abusers.

A Good Girl's Guide to Avoiding Abusive Relationships

Wisdom for women takes you through the woman’s ordeal as a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, a step-mother, a friend and a lover. You won’t believe how deep it can be till you read this. For non-female readers, it helps you to understand the mind-frame of women. The stories are fiction based on true life experiences and the wisdom nuggets that precede each account are pieces of the author’s mind presented as a narration from a wealth of wisdom. The desire of the author is to see everyone who picks this book up, blessed; learning, and changed.

Wisdom for Women

Some chances in life only come once. She had already had hers at love and would not dare expect more.

When Fayona's husband was killed in a plane crash five years earlier, she made up her mind there would be no goodbyes between them and she was determined to keep the memories of their time together as her constant companion. 

But Jason Ola-Daniels had other ideas and he was out to make Fayona see that life offered more chances than she thought. He just didn't bargain for the stiff resistance from her. 

Will Fayona allow Jason scale the walls she has built around herself? Can she overcome the fear of losing another man she loves? What about the societal and family expectations that Jason, scion of the Ola-Daniels dynasty marry someone who has never been married? 

To Live Again is a story about undying love, second chances, emotional healing and learning to trust once more.

To Live Again

Attractive business mogul, Akeem Kadiri, has just one belief — confidence in himself and his ability to make things happen. His principle had worked for him over the years, and he had no reason to change it.
When he meets Yemi, his life appears even more picture-perfect until a costly decision results in his carefully planned life spiralling out of control.

Yemi is completely swept off her feet when she meets Akeem during her holidays in the U.K. 
Despite the differences in their family backgrounds, Yemi feels secure in Akeem’s love for her until events happen that shake her to her very core.

Can their love for each other withstand the consequences of their actions? Or will they find it easier to let things take their natural course?
‘After The Storm’ is a story of love, heartbreak, difficult choices and ultimately finding the greatest love of all.

After The Storm

“Children are an heritage of the Lord: the fruit of the womb is his reward.” Psalm 127:3 Emmy and I used to remind ourselves of these words during our waiting season, especially when our case as explained by the doctor to us was unexplained infertility. Research has shown that 10 percent of women (6.1 million) in the United States aged 15-44 have difficulty getting pregnant or staying pregnant, according to centres for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). While at least 50 million couples worldwide experience infertility, according to Global prevalence infertility data, some can be explained while some are unexplained infertility. Just like us, there are couples all over the world today who came to that same realization of infertility. Trying to conceive comes with its challenges and struggles. The inability to help yourselves makes it even more challenging. Some couples describe it as long years of heartbreaking failures while others say it makes them feel inadequate. Like us, we agreed to quit the why us questions, to quit complaining, murmuring, and wailing even when it sometimes sounds logical to do these things. We accepted the reality of infertility in our marriage and decided to embrace our waiting season. The courage to wait patiently whilst our attitude were tested during this season made us stronger together facing each day, month, and years with hope knowing that we also will be joyful parents. We held on to God’s words concerning children and knowing His will for us is to have them surround our table. Emmy and I kept hoping and trusting God for our children. We moved from being a worried couple to a thankful couple. We were grateful for life, the beautiful people, and things within and around us. We deliberately refused to accept the infertility report but held on to the truth in God’s word. Sooner than we know, our peace was restored, and our joy was full when we heard the heartbeat of our child. While Waiting is written to give hope to waiting parents and encourage them through this waiting period. As you go through this period, may you be strengthened emotionally, physically, and spiritually while you enjoy this phase of your life knowing that it will end in joy.

While Waiting

Denola was shattered when Banji Adenle-Coker, turned his back on her eight years earlier. She had struggled to come to terms with his rejection and she's happy she finally has her life on course, a successful career as well as a fiancé who loves her.
As Denola and her fiancé plan for their future, she’s unprepared for the emotional upheaval involved in trying to fit her past into her present. It also doesn’t help that Banji appears to have developed a renewed interest in her affairs.
Will Denola be able to move forward into the new life that beckons at her, or will she have to revisit the past in order to step into the future?

Wings of Healing

Corporate guru, Fola Lawal, has mastered the business world and is at the top of his game. Abandoned as a day-old baby, Fola spent his early years in an orphanage. But despite his difficult start in life, he has achieved success by dint of hard work and his intellect. His mantra in life is to distrust everyone and depend on no one. 

Derin Phillips knows she should not be attracted to a man like Fola. His lifestyle and beliefs are against everything she has always known, but she seems unable to stop the pull she feels towards him. She relocated from the UK to deal with the loss of her best friend; getting attracted to her new boss was not part of her plans. 

Can Fola let go of his carefully concealed hurts from the past? Will Derin be able to stand firm on her beliefs? Can they both learn to trust and find true healing in the hands of the greatest physician? 

Echoes Of The Past

The first part of this book is for the description of how pleasurable sex can be for any married couple. It also established that you may even discover this pleasure years into your marriage. Great sex is not an automatic experience, it needs to be cultivated with lots of deliberate attention.


The second part of this book attempts to show the kind of work you need to put into your marriage to achieve the desired, continuous levels of engagement and connection which lead to great sex on a consistent basis.

Yes there is dutiful sex, boring sex, quick sex and there is great sex. I hope you have gained something new, refreshed something old and borrowed some new ideas. 

Have a wonderful marriage and a happy home. Live happily ever after and enjoy great sex

Great Sex is Work!

Tired of being the person everyone turned to for help, Tiwa felt it was about time her own life got sorted too. 

 She had been a maid-of-honour more times than she cared to remember, and all she wanted now was to meet the ‘right’ man. 

But the entrance of reformed playboy, Tade, into her life was not exactly what she bargained for. 

While trying to deal with Tade, and the complications from his previous lifestyle, along came Femi Phillips but she wasn’t quite sure she could trust him. 

Should Tiwa stick with Tade whose family had already welcomed her with open arms or could she take a chance with Femi? 

Still Waters

When Kenny meets Kate as a teenager, he mistakes her for a boy. Eight years later, his father forces him into an arranged marriage with her. Kenny hates her on sight, while Kate has been in love with him forever. She plans on making her marriage work no matter what. But Kenny plans on fighting his father’s control with all his might. Unfortunately, that control included his marriage.



Trauma

This book tells a short and captivating real life story on how one, especially an introvert can have great relationships with people. It explains the hardship an introvert faces when doing this also. The book deals with emotional management, communication, how to meet people and also building good and healthy relationships.

The Turning Point in the Life of an Introvert

Too busy to read a 64 paged book on parenting? This is just the right book for you. Parents and Children is filled with bite sized information on how to handle children’s emotion, interpersonal relationships, health crisis and financial literacy. Ann Esievoadje uses the pattern of her Nimabox Youtube Book Review show, Book Lovers Alley, to present the information in an easy to read manner. She is a talented writer driven to change people through her writing. Ann Esievoadje has authored other books such as The Quilt, Troubled Horizon and Other stories and Being Mummy and Me.

Parents and Children 

“Mothers and Daughters: Practical Insight For Mums To Raise Godly Daughters Intentionally And Unapologetically In Today's World" is a book on parenting with emphasis on the 'mother-daughter' relationship. It gives practical insight on issues that are peculiar to little girls, teenagers and young women. Issues such as manners, bullying, sex talk, menstrual cycles, personalities, teenage years, financial freedom, marriage, gifts, purpose, salvation and much more.

Mothers & Daughters

Being Mummy and Me is a non-fiction book on how women can balance their individuality as a young married parent in different phases of life. From keeping relationships with our spouse, extended family and friends, to loving ourselves and pursuing our goals both in academics and career. It is punctuated with stories from real parents on funny things children do. Ann Esievoadje pulls from her experience as a mother of two sons to share life lessons learned along the way. Her love for stories is evident in the other books she has authored - The Quilt, Troubled Horizon and Other stories and Parents and Children.

Being Mummy & Me

Raising a phenomenal child in the chaos world as a parent with many cares and concerns has made many see parenting as a hard work, the author; Udunma Nnenna Ikoro; shared insights that are simple but tremendously effective.

Phenomenal Parenting is the parenting bible for parents, educators and intending parents.
This practical guide will help parents with the essential practices in understanding parenting better and simple acts of raising a phenomenal child.
Gradually, tips shared in this masterpiece give profound solutions daily in the life of every child starting from toddlers' right through teenagers' even adults. It expounded on the best parenting technique in 21st Century, discipline practice, how to instill the right attitudes, lifestyle, and skills into your child. These tips include engaging the kids even how to engage them; evaluate their engagements and the importance, celebrate their wins, self-discovery, building self-esteem, affirmations and more required to help your child become a wholesome child.
If you want to be a phenomenal parent who applies effective parenting skills. Phenomenal parenting is the book for every parent.

Phenomenal Parenting

A recent report on the drivers of violence against children in Nigeria, compiled by UNICEF, it was found that Nigeria has the highest number of caregivers in sub Saharan Africa, who perpetrated violence against children in the name of discipline. It’s time to call attention to the eternal truth that until you connect, you cannot correct and connection answers to knowledge skills and attitude.
If you are struggling with misbehaviors in your child, this book might be that answer you are looking for. Connect to Correct is a guide to intentional parenting. 
The 21st century is a tough time to be a parent and a child. There are better ways to ensue you get your children to do the right things without having to resort to yelling, abusing threatening or hitting them. You can connect with them in the most interesting ways and put them on the right path of life. 
This book reveals strategies that will help you create boundaries with your child without any fear based control. It’s woven with excellent parenting strategies that arms you with knowledge and actionable steps that drive the two wheels of successful 21st century parenting: making meaningful connections with your child while setting wholesome standards.

Connect to Correct

When the desire you have yearned to fulfill for thirteen years finally gets accomplished, how do you cope with the irony of coming to lose it?
Just two weeks after the birth of their daughter Sophie, she goes missing. Tangy and Dave, her parents cannot find her anywhere and their only suspect is the maid. Tangy, is a popular host for a show where the discourses of gender roles are discussed, and her husband, Dave is a busy pilot. After the disappearance of their child, the media turns on her as a legitimate example of failed motherhood in working class women. 
While there is so much mystery behind the abduction of Sophie, and how it would affect Tangy’s success in her career. The story takes a new turn when years later, a troubled teenager employed in their home is discovered to be an imposter. What is this imposters’ true identity and is this related to their daughter Sophie.
Masked is both captivating and inspiring. A page turner that provokes emotions and questions – Is motherhood really the beginning and end of love?

Masked

Each year, millions of women are raped or sexually abused but only a few out of them tell their stories. Some of them commit suicide because they believe their honor and dignity had been snatched away from them during the unwanted and shameful act often lasting only a few minutes. Research has shown that young female children and women are the prime targets of this crime. Many rape victims are still hurting from its shame till this moment while others have ended their lives because they were blamed for being raped.
She Tells It All is about some aspects of my life while growing up, incidents which I have always felt the need to shout out to families, to other girls /daughters. By taking the bold step of writing this book and being a voice that can be heard, I hope that others as well can make a positive change in their lives by coming out with their stories knowing that it is never too late to take a bold step.
Being raped or sexually molested is a traumatic experience which could bring one’s life to an end. She Tells It All is an eye-opener to every reader that whoever goes through such an experience should not keep silent but dare to speak out for justice to take its course.
The laws relating to the offence of rape has been explained in such a way that any reader can understand. The experiences of other victims should also serve as a courageous beginning to tell it all…

She Tells it All

Every mother who desires that her daughter or son lives a sexually pure life must take urgent measures about it today. Years ago, young boys and girls who were not married were trained to always look down on counterparts who have lost their virginity and are sexually active. The beauty and the dignity of virginity was highly extolled, appreciated, and rewarded, even on the wedding day. 
            Now, the story has changed. Young adults who have lost theirs untimely and under the most unreasonable circumstances seem to be the most celebrated while those who hold on to theirs are fast becoming endangered species in our communities today. Virgins now are mocked, embarrassed, molested and looked down upon. They are constantly pressured by peers to join their counterparts who have lost theirs. 
The society is so much saturated with sex. It has placed so much emphasis on immorality and promiscuity so much so that it looks as though it is the right thing to do. It is so broadcasted everywhere that you cannot miss it. In essence, the youths and teenagers of today have become very sexually aggressive, and the earlier we reckon with this fact and take preventive measures to guard against the sexual challenges of the day, the better for us. 
Truly, virginity is meant to be lost, but the timing of the lost, coupled with the circumstances that surround it, and who it is being lost to, is as important as the act of the loss itself. This book in your hands may be your most important contribution in saving the destiny of just one more teenager/youth from the werewolf of sexual impurity that is destroying this generation.

The Beauty of Virginity

Are you a first-time-mum struggling to navigate motherhood successfully or a mother who has been finding it difficult to cope with all that comes with motherhood?
Coping with motherhood and every other thing life throws at women can be overwhelming and it has been shown that many women lose themselves in the process while some even get depressed to the extent of running away from people or even contemplating suicide. 
The New Moms' Guide to Stress-free Motherhood is a resource for all women; singles and married who desire to have a great motherhood journey without feeling frustrated but can still slay in the process.

The book talks about the issues women go through once they give birth but don't really have to go through should they have knowledge before becoming a mother. It also contains true life stories of mothers who learnt on the job, got their fingers burnt and how new moms can avoid these mistakes.

In the book are several questions with answers on how to enjoy motherhood, issues discussed ranges from how a mother can care for herself because her well being is pivotal to the well being of others. How she can care for her baby, cater to the needs of her family, things to know and do during & after pregnancy, issues of sex with her husband, all a woman needs to know about postpartum depression, preparing the older child for the arrival of the new baby for mothers who are not first-timers, what the mother needs to do to prevent her baby from falling sick, signs to watch out for to understand what the baby is saying even when they have not started talking and many more.

This book is the solution to most of the challenges women face in their motherhood journey and it is loaded with all they need to be a great mother, wife and career woman without any of them clashing with the other.

The book is for both singles and married.

The New Moms' Guide to Stress-Free Motherhood

Anyone who carefully studies nature would find that there really is no selfishness in nature. Competition doesn’t really exist in the nature. What exists are ecological niches, food chains, and balance. Positional Leadership systems also contribute to this self-centered attitude. People think that “If I am first, then I am better than others”. Numbers were never created to create competition but to put things in order. Competition creeps in when people buy into positional leadership.

At the end of this straight-to-the-point read, my intention is to show you a more excellent way to live with yourself and others; and to help you see that you can rise just as other women around you rise. And then, you get to enjoy yourself and enjoy them at the same time.

Enjoying Her

Funto Peters is not the typical lady who follows trend. Raised in a Christian home, she believes in God’s will more often than not. The journey is smooth. But when the tide turns, what actions will she take? 

Mary loves her best friend, Funto. She holds that Funto is lucky. But when Funto takes what Mary treasures most, Mary is bound to react. What will she do? Will there be consequences? 

Dave is a perfect gentleman who believes in ‘God first.’ He lost his job and his home drives towards a rock. When a supposed saviour in human form comes, what will he do? Will he buckle? Find answers and much more in this gripping, inspiring, and mentally refreshing, book, ‘Alley of Fire’

Alley of Fire

In this book you will:
-	Uncover new parenting styles and how to create a style that is custom made to deliver the dreams of your child.
-	Master how to script your children based on their inherent traits, to become the best versions of themselves.
-	Produce accelerated results with proven template that disrupts everything you have been taught about parenting as well as deliver results than you ever thought possible in your children.
-	Deploy proven techniques in creating exceptional parenting results.
Once this concept is understood and applied, parenting becomes less difficult and out of the box™ exceptional children eventually emerge, pushing every known boundary and creating a future that many of us can only imagine.
The true potential of a child remains hidden until someone who understands the true navigation system of a child uncovers it. 
The problem of the world remains an ADULT (-eration) but the solution is a CHILD.
	


Out of the Box Parenting

Sexual abuse, rape, molestation and violence is a dreadful experience for the growing, girl child and it is very difficult to forget the memories of such bad encounter.

This book contains all that a girl needs to know about herself, the necessary steps to take to curb any cases of sexual abuse/rape, prevalent in our society.

This book is dedicated to every girl out there who desires a happier and healthier life, free of sexual abuse, molestation and violence, and to the girl who wishes to be fulfilled and successful, living the life of her dreams.

Girl's Code to a Happy Life

What happens when someone you gave your all to walks out on you? How do you bounce back from the pain of watching someone you have shared the greatest moments with walk into the future with someone else? The pain of heartbreak is devastating that some never fully recover from it. How do you free yourself from the ghost of the past so that you can fully love and live again? In this book, you will master how to truly ‘unbreak’ your heart and become whole again.




Unbreak My Heart

A primer on raising children and the duties all Christian parents have toward those God has entrusted to them.

The Duties of Parents

Although born into abject poverty, Raymond Olawale Jacobs was able to claw his way to the top in business, eventually becoming one of the richest men in Nigeria and in the world. When everything appeared to be going well, a simple weekend fling ended up destroying the peace in his home, and from then things just kept getting worst. 

At seventy-five, Raymond Jacobs was diagnosed with stage four Prostate cancer and given a few months to live. His personal doctor and friend had advised him to put his house in order, so his children and wives wouldn't be at each other's throat when he is eventually no more. Raymond Jacobs saw his Will and Last Testament as the ultimate weapon to right the wrongs that had plagued his entire life. But little did he know how erroneous this move was. 


The Will

In this book you will discover:
1. The danger of a life without values
2. How to work with children
3. The values that should form the core
4. How to raise u a godly child
5. How to develop confidence in your child
6. How to develop love in a child
7. How to form the concept of freedom and personal responsibility in a child
8. How to develop a habit of hard work in your child
9. How to teach a child the concept of justice
10. How to teach a child to discover his passion


How to Create Core Values in A Child

Wisdom for men takes you through the man’s ordeal as a husband, a father, a brother, a son, a friend and a lover. You won’t believe how deep it can be till you read this. For non-male readers, it helps you to understand the mind-frame of men. The stories are fiction based on true life experiences and the wisdom nuggets that precede each account are pieces of the author’s mind presented as a narration from a wealth of wisdom. The desire of the author is to see everyone who picks this book up, blessed; learning, and changed.

Wisdom for Men

My name is Okoye, Favour Odira, a writer and a poet. I am here to introduce my book, which is founded on the bedrock of Autism. Autism is a type of disorder in both children and adults, that tampers with their brains and makes them less receptive to people around them. Autistic people are very intelligent or witty when they desire to. Otherwise, they can lock themselves up and won’t open up to people.
The fear and struggle in this area is indeed perplexing but not insurmountable. This has brought about anxiety and lack of responsibility from majority of parents and guardians towards the autistic individual, thereby leading to series of neglect and offering them for adoptions. 
These issues caused me to coin my novel ‘The Apple Of My Parents Eyes.' This is a novel with great insights. More so, it brings an outstanding and irrepressible faith to every individual who is directly or indirectly involved in this.
With the increasing rise of Autism in the world, there needs to be a focal point to educate parents and guardians, and proffer a working solution and hope to them. This book also highlights the relationship between parents and guardians, children and the way your actions determine the outcome of your life. 
There are times when we are at a loss on how we should handle a particular issue. We are at a loss at how to show our emotions or what decision to make. The autistic child and her guardians has it worse than we can imagine, knowing that whatever they do might affect the child adversely or bring about a deeper Gap instead of bridging the Gap.
This books covers all the points above, bothering on self love. Self love is much deeper than acknowledging the fact that you are beautiful, witty or intelligent, it encompasses the act of loving our flaws and also trying to improve ourselves in all areas. That’s exactly what my book capitalizes on. You can’t love yourself and not extend it to others around you. When you have self love, you are able to come to terms with your weaknesses. 
This book offers an exposure that’s often times overlooked in our generation as unsubstantial, it makes you stand on your toes to check your life where it is and also know what matters.

The Apple of My Parents' Eyes

Over the years, myths and errors have been taught as truth and many people have had their lives messed up by what used to be but no longer relevant.
With the growing spate of divorce across the globe and marital bliss giving way to marital stress, there is a serious need to troubleshoot what we have believed over the years that could be sabotaging our overall well-being in the present.
In this book, we’d place a number of our beliefs on the timeless scale of marital truths to see how they fare-if they will stand or fail.
Only the truth sets free, and this book will surely achieve that. In truth, nobody deserves to get married until they have gone through these checks with their intended spouse.


Bursting Your Marital Bubbles

In this book you''ll discover:
1. The importance of establishing a friendly relationship with a child
2. If you are a friend with your child?
3. The importance of spending time together with your child
4. How to spend time together with your child
5. Consequences of lack of time with your child
6. 3 main types of mutual activities
7. Dinning together as a way to build relationship
8. How lunch time helps your child to be freer in communication and literacy
9. The most important investement in your child is value system
10. Maintain communication when physically distant from your child

How to Build Friendly Relationship with Your Child

Human Relationship will help you build valuable relationships regardless your personality. This ebook is filled with useful information that can help you win over people, only if you adhere to the principles. It talks about relationship in general, from the family to the society at large.

Human Relationship is exactly what you need to build positive relationships. If you can read it, then you can make your relationship with people great.

Human Relationship

The very mention of the word 'friends", ignites a lot of memories in the hearts of everyone.To some, of friends who have been a blessing, and to others memories of disappointments and betrayal, caused by supposed friends.Is There Anything like True Friendship Today?How do I Make Real Friends?How Do I Discern Unfriendly Friends?How Can a Guy and Lady be Friends Without Flirting?These and many more questions will be answered as the author takes you through practical steps inthe world of true friendship and you will reap the benefits.Discover the secrets to success in friendship and how your association determines your destiny.

Friends and Friendship

Rape is commonly perpetrated on the female gender as they are the most vulnerable. 

Research has it that, 1 in 4 women had experienced rape in their lifetime. And 1 out of 3 girls in Nigeria have lost their virginity through rape.

The purpose of this book is to outline what rape is and it's effects on the victims. 

It would also narrate the true-life stories of rape victims and how it has influenced them to be. Most of these victims were sexually molested at a very young age.

The book would also examine the role, everyone needs to play in curbing this menace.

RAPE: The Pain Never Goes

"Child parenting is not the work of mothers alone. It's a joint effort by the both parents. 
All these attacks all over the world today are as a result of the failed responsibility of the parents and now everybody is paying for it including the innocent ones. Children who supposed to be a blessing to humanity are now  problem to the society; that is the consequences of not parenting them properly. 
If you fail to catch them young for Christ, somebody somewhere will catch them young for Satan and he will be using them to do outrageous things in the society. 
Proper Guide For Good Parenting teaches you how to successfully parent your children in this crooked generation."

Proper Guide for Good Parenting

 Fifty years of friendship love, fidelity and commitment to each other. That is the record my parents have set. And, at a time when the marriage institution has been desecrated on different fronts, keeping it perfectly real is a spectacular feat. Bear with me if I appear not to be able to contain myself while I take you through the fantastic 50-year life journey of these awesome parents of mine.
It is my hope that you would find this an interesting read, scooping lessons and experiences that guarantee a golden life of love.

Son of My Parents

*A child should not be punished for telling the truth except the offense was life threatening*

First if all, this isn't like any parenting book you have ever read.

Coming from a different perspective where 'the rod' isn't always the fix it all method, *Parenting* *Nuggets* profers other methods of handling your child.
Real life examples, surveys and the practical steps used in this book makes it a complete package.

This isn't your regular parenting book.

Parenting Nuggets

Keeping Children Safe Online: A Guide to Having a Conversation with your Children on their use of Social Media, Internet and Mobile Phones is a book for parents, teachers and other child caregivers. The book gives them insight on how they may keep their children safe in the use of the internet and digital devices.
It draws upon surveys on the online activities of thousands of Nigerian children, conducted by the writers. The findings of the surveys, which align with findings of similar notable surveys in other countries, are to the effect that children face four types of risks online – content risk, contact risk, conduct risk and commercialization risk. All these are explained in the book. The writers explain to readers how they may prepare children to combat these risks. 
The book shows how issues like pornography and sexting may be addressed with children. Readers are given six easy-to-understand tips on child online safety for readers. Readers are also made to understand the need for mobile-phone policies in schools.

Keeping Children Safe Online

With the seeming challenges of a sexualized world, it is important parents are well informed and deliberate in their actions because just like many didn’t prepare for marriage, they never also prepare for parenting. 

This book will open you up to timely truths and age appropriate teachings of smart parents in a sexualized world.  

"A preserved childhood is better than a repaired adulthood." - Ify Obiekwe



Smart Parenting in a Sexualized World

Apeke’s Memoir is a gripping account of how a young woman overcame her childhood difficulties to achieve the career and life of her dreams.


Olajumoke Osofisan was born and raised in the city of Ibadan, Nigeria. She currently lives in the United Kingdom with her husband and two children. She is a Christian, and her faith and family are especially important to her. She is also a paediatrician with a core interest in treating children living with cancer. When she isn’t working, she’s spending time with her family, being adventurous, travelling, or listening to music. 

Apeke's Memoir

With the systematic spread of misandry and anti-male sentiments passed off as ‘feminism’, Dear King is written as a #LetterToSons which gives practical advice to help men and boys navigate the troubled waters called ‘ life in the 21st century’. Men are debased and shamed for being masculine. The inherent biological traits that differentiate men from women are labeled toxic. For these reasons, a book that addresses principles that will provide guidance for men and young boys becomes a necessity.
Dear King is a heartfelt compilation of seven letters and seventeen principles from a mother determined to give her sons the best direction possible. The book is premised on proven neurological distinctions between men and women which give rise to psychological and emotional differences. Therefore, it explains why these ‘gender’ differences should count in present day conversations. It is a letter to sons that emphasizes stoicism, chivalry and empathy. Dear King is written as a manual to help parents raise first rate sons.

Dear King

The book is inspired by the current trend in the world, dated back to 2012 during my master’s degree study, where I was privilege to meet several youths as well as analyse the difficulties they face with living away from home for advance study. One of the major issues was their inability to retain a positive etiquette due to peer pressure and worries and exposure of life. I was able to deduce from my research, that Parent has a crucial role to play, in ensuring their lads are brought up rightly and stick by the precepts they are accustomed to.
There are views laid via each chapter on the roles of Parent, friends, society amongst others and how Parent shouldn’t give up still, on the current state of their children regardless of the damage impact on ground. Parent will always remain the first point of contact to their offspring’s emotions on turning a new leave for a better and brighter generation.

Parental Influence on Youths: A Necessity or not?

Every child is unique. No matter the number of children you have, study each and every one of them, it will help you to know how to handle them successfully if only you want to be a successful mother or parent. 
It's not how you handle other children you will handle an inferiority complex child because if you do, he will see it as hatred. Treating an inferiority complex child the way you treat others is like forcing a square peg into a round hole.

Parenting an Inferiority Complex Child

There is nothing wrong with mistakes when we can learn and avoid a repeat. But mistakes are also avoidable when we can activate our ability to learn from others. Too many of us have destroyed families that were headed for bliss by avoidable errors powered often by wrong beliefs. With the spate of divorce hitting an all-time high across the globe, there is a major need to discover a new template that works and can deliver a family that works. After working with troubled marriages for 16 years, this is what I have observed and my recommendation, which I believe can help every man become the SAVIOURS as against the saboteurs of their families. It is a new day.

Common Mistakes Married Men Make

Raising a child is the most delicate task any parent will ever undergo. This is because your decisions as a parent can either make or mar your child. Raising a child in a foreign country is even more peculiar. 

The desire to give one’s child the best of two different cultures has raised a lot of questions among immigrants, especially African immigrants. 

Having raised her children successfully in a foreign country, Dr Bunmi Roach shares some tested techniques for raising a well rounded and confident child in a foreign country.

Without doubt, the tips proffered in this book will help you raise a child who is better prepared for the harsh realities of racism, hostilities and other undeniable social vices.

Do you desire to raise a child who stands tall globally? 
Then, you have picked the right book.

Raising a Child in a Foreign Country

How will I know? is a mind guidebook that highlights and discusses important considerations for young ladies who are at the stage of making the important choice of a life partner. Mothers are also encouraged to read and discuss this book with their daughters. The approach is practical, the writing style easy to read and comprehend and the message is delivered in a clear and concise manner. 

How Will I Know?

Child Abuse, although becoming a cankerworm in our today’s society, is given little or no attention. This is greatly attributed to the emphasis placed on seemingly more prevalent issues in the society. The place of a child in the society has long been disregarded, hence, the stories hitting the dailies of how children undergo inhumane treatment and abuse of all sorts. This has seen to the emergence of adults whose existence is based on emotional back cry.

This is why I have put together my knowledge and experience as a sexual advocate. This book shows the various cases and instances of child abuse, treatment/prevention, and possible actions to be taken in cases of child abuse. It is a complete guide for caregivers, parents, teachers, and all who have children under their watch.

Broken and Shattered: The Diary of an Abused Child

Why do some people go through very difficult challenges and find it easy to move on?
How are some people able to bounce back after going through horrible situations?
Failure is an integral part of every human's life, why then are we not taught about it from childhood?
Why does society place such a high value on basic education but neglect important life issues like grief, financial intelligence, self-esteem and failure?

Many of us who are parents today were never taught these skills, so when we have children, we don't equip them either. How can you teach what you don't know? Therefore, we repeat the cycle of having children that life happens to, and they coast through it never quite grasping the lessons along the way. This book has been written to put an end to that vicious cycle.

Imagine a world where children are raised from home properly equipped with knowledge about real-life issues coupled with the wealth of education? Wouldn't that be amazing?

Help Your Child Deal With Failure -Before it Happens

...love in a hopeless place...

After one drunken encounter at a mutual friend's wedding, Frank doesn't expect to meet the stranger with sad eyes who bullied his daughter ever again. When he walks into his brother's bookstore and meets the new store attendant, he is surprised to find out she is the same person.

Taking care of her son and juggling a budding writing career is top on Seun's list of priorities, followed immediately by avoiding her baby daddy. The moment she sets eyes on her boss' younger brother though, she knows it spells trouble for her heart and her already fragile domino-stack of a life.

They are both single parents and the last thing on their minds is love. Sometimes though, life has other plans. When an old flame threatens their new found friendship and hope, their lives are turned upside down. Will they find redemption in the midst of so much hurt, pain and chaos?

A Love for Tomorrow

In this book, I have shared well-proven principles that save marriages and practical testimonies of how the application of these principles saved our marriage from sorrow and divorce, and also granted us stability and happiness in our home. The first few chapters explain the basic principles, while the later chapters contain more personal stories of their applications. The book was written in questions and answers format to ensure an easy read.

What Saved My Marriage

Securing The Future Of Your Family is a friendly legal book written purposely to encourage readers to safeguard their families while they are alive, so that other people will not have to do it while they are no longer alive. The consequences of not doing this is very grave, and once can only wish and hope that readers will avoid such pitfall by heeding to the advice given in this book.


Securing the Future Of Your Family

Are you wondering what the “7-7-10 Formula For Wealth Creation” is all about? It is the latest concept and a necessary addition to the increasing volumes of wealth creation theories which many motivational speakers and authors have served their listening and reading audiences in recent times. You need to be fed with something fresh if you want to do anything new. 
The formula was created from the overall idea and outline of this book. The book has 7 short chapters, six of which begin with the concept of “7” as the anchor of the chapter titles. With that, we have the idea of “7-7”. The last chapter has a different numeral anchor. It is the only one that begins with figure 10 as the foundation of the chapter idea. Putting everything together, we have “7-7-10” plan of the book.
Having listened to many outstanding motivational speakers on wealth creation, and having read volumes of books on the subject, the missing link we have observed so far is that most materials on the subject are not particularly addressed to the teenage years of prospective millionaires. 
This missing link is what we supplied in this book. The new concept is to make the principles of wealth creation, especially among teenagers, simple and easy to follow. 
Today's global trend is that many young people are emerging as Chief Executive Officers (CEOs) of multimillion businesses. Many more are rising to stardom with multimillion dollars benefits in sports, entertainment, academics, information technology, science, public speaking and as well as other professional and vocational areas.

Raising Teenage Millionaires

Are you a stay at home mum? Do you constantly feel tired, exhausted and frustrated? Do you often feel like you don't know you who are or what you want to do with your life? Lisa Maxwell felt the same way for years until she had an encounter with God that changed her entire perspective of what motherhood is about. Through her (number of years) as a stay at home mum, Lisa has been intentional about parenting, being a wife to her husband and not losing herself in the process. She shares her uncommon insights and engaging personal stories in this book to remind you that being a happy stay at home mum and maintaining a healthy balance between caring for your home, yourself, and doing the things you love to do is possible. 

In this book, you will learn: 

?	What motherhood looks like in God's context
?	How to navigate this season while serving your other expressions.
?	How to truly care for yourself.
?	How to balance being a mum and a wife 
?	How to be a present parent to your children 
?	Practical hacks and wisdom to becoming a productive stay at home mum. 

Join Lisa as she takes you on a heart to heart journey to becoming all that God has called you to be from the inside out. You’re a Wonder Woman challenges you to step into the fullness of God's purpose for your life and reach for what is possible.

You are a Wonder Woman

Dear Father/Father-to-be,
Did you know that:
• 63% of suicides come from fatherless homes.
• 70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes.
• 80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger come from fatherless homes.
• 40% of all children do not live with their biological fathers.
• 85% of children with behavioural problems come from fatherless homes.
• 90% of homeless children come from fatherless homes.
Before you are tempted to think this is a Western problem only, consider these data from Africa:
• 71% of children who do not finish school come from fatherless homes.
Father-absenteeism is on the increase in Africa, generating such problems as broken families, aggressive behaviour amongst children, financial and social problems and poverty (Freeks 2016:2). Furthermore, with the wave of radical feminism sweeping across the globe, more and more homes in Africa are now being run by single mothers.
The questions we are now faced with include:
What does it mean to be a good father in this century?
If the absence of fathers can wreak this much havoc, how can we help our fathers to be more present and appreciated? 
Men are expected to know what to do but how would they know what to do if they were never taught? 
How many men can boast of having had their fathers mentor and coach them on how to be men, husbands and fathers? 
In this book, Father-Mentor, Bridget Elesin has attempted to answer these and more questions on fatherhood as honestly and as accurately as possible. Father-Mentor is a short, easy-to-read and highly insightful parenting guide for men and is culled from Bridget's over two decades of working with men and fathers.

Father Mentor

Are you a P.K, or the parent of one? It's nice to have you share my experiences about the challenges of P.Ks and how to overcome them. The Preacher's Kid (P.K as it is generally called) is a term usually used to describe either the son or the daughter of a minister of the gospel, irrespective of his or her age. Even when some of them are already adults, they are still referred to as kids, and you will soon know why!

Parents, who are deeply involved in the work of the ministry either as pastors, preachers, evangelists, deacons, elders, vicars, priests or bishops, always have their offsprings automatically referred to as Preacher's Kids. Whether the children like the identity or not does not make any difference, at least to those who prefer to call them as such. As long as your parents have something to do with the office of the clergy, you cannot escape either the designation or the challenges of a PREACHER'S KID.

The essence of this book is obvious from its title. The Pastor's family today is the major battle ground of the archenemy of God, and the main target of that battle, just like the King on a Chess Board game, is the Preacher's Kid. Once we allow the devil to capture them, the game may be over for the family.

Challenges of a Preacher's Kid

Dear Daughter' is a thought provoking monologue from a mother, who shares the experiences of a woman in a patriarchal society, in a special, but interesting way. There are seven letters with specific themes. Each reveals hurt and brings healing. You will not stop reading until you get to the end.

Dear Daughter

Decode Your Teenager: Discover Secret Parenting Skills for Raising Happy Teens Without Power Struggles.
Do you remember what it was like being a teenager?
The awkwardness, the drama... not to mention hormonal mood swings and confusing physical changes.
In many aspects, being a teenager is harder than being an adult.
It is that weird, transitional period of life when you're supposed to take on a lot of grown-up responsibilities, without really being a grown-up yourself.
And yet, there's only one thing more challenging than being a teenager: being a parent of one.
A lot of parents claim they would happily go back to the sleepless newborn phase and toddler tantrums rather than trying to navigate the perpetual moodiness and drama of puberty.
According to a 2004 Parent-Teen Relationships study, early adolescence often triggers family disruption that usually manifests through verbal conflicts and problem behaviors.
This is troublesome news, considering that the same study offered strong evidence suggesting that the nature of a parent-child relationship influences the child's life outcomes and affects their development.
In other words, a positive relationship between you and your child can determine whether they'll grow up to be a happy, responsible individual, or a troubled one.
Establishing a positive relationship with your teen may be easier said than done, but there are certain universal truths and secrets to relaxed, successful parenting of teenagers, even if they fall on the rebellious side.
This, and much more, is what you'll discover in this book that promotes positive, peaceful parenting and will help you establish a deep emotional connection with your teen.
In Parenting Teens in a Pandemic, you will discover:
•	guides for parenting teenage boys in today's challenging world
•	Bulletproof strategies for managing your teenager during lockdown and helping them adjust to the changes the world is currently going through
•	Techniques for handling anger, both yours and your child's, to help you resolve conflicts without raised voices
•	An insight into your teenager's mind: discover the mental and physical changes your children are going through, and how to deal with them in a peaceful, constructive manner
•	How to recognize adolescent depression and anxiety, and guide your teen through one of the most challenging phases of his life
•	Tricks and methods for disciplining your children, without turning the house into a battlefield
•	Secret parenting techniques for fostering emotional and intellectual development, and establishing a positive relationship that will benefit your child immensely
And much more.
Even though some parts refer to parenting of a specific gender, the strategies and techniques presented inside are gender neutral.
In other words, they will work regardless of whether you're raising a boy or a girl, as they target an individual as such, and not so much a particular gender.
If you're ready to establish a happy, positive relationship with your teen, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button right now.

Parenting Teens in a Pandemic

This book was written to help women, especially single mothers tread this phase with clarity.

It is my contribution to support every woman who is a single mother understand that, they can always make lemonade out of the lemons life threw at them.

The need to take care of self is of utmost importance and should be given priority.

Life is beautiful only if we are committed to seeing it and giving our best to it.

It became a reality that I experienced and I saw a need to pen down my experience and those that I have come across.

The stigmatization that trails becoming a single mom is one that should be looked into with a view to ending it.

The need for the society to right the wrongs of labeling single mothers I now. 

Life happened and no one can run faster than his/her shadow!

How to Thrive As A Single Mom

What is a Christian husband's role in marriage?

This short book provides practical answers to the above question.

It’s so clear today that the devil has increased his operation against marriages especially Christian marriages. The rate of divorce even among Christians is a great pointer to this unfortunate fact.

Now the only potent way to get the devil out of your marriage is for you to be filled with enough light; that is, information or revelation or secrets from God on how to have a safe marriage. This short and straight-to-the-point book will help you to catch some secrets of God to keep your marriage safe.

I have been a Christian husband for over 14 years now and I must tell you it has been an exciting experience with lots of unforgettable events so far. The content of this book describes my practical experience over the years as a Christian husband.

25 Practical Ways to Love Your Wife More

As the world continue to advance in age and technology, our teenagers and young adults are faced with more pressures from various sources which puts a call on parents and adults to higher parental responsibilities than it was in yester years.
Children are a blessing and it is the joy of every parents to see their children make them proud in the near future. Therefore, parents, foster parents and adults have a role to play in raising the young ones decently with the necessary values needed to navigate through life. To achieve this, the early stage is the best time to start laying the foundation, we need to support them physically, spiritually, financially, communicate with them effectively and help them put words to their emotions when they have difficulty expressing themselves etc. Much more, every parents and adults can be a model of best behaviors to the young ones and ensure they are surrounded by positive influencers as much as possible. While it is sometimes said that good parenting does not guarantee parental success, it also important to note that good parenting makes a lot of difference. Find out more on practical approach to influencing a child positively as well as consideration of what to do when we encounter parental challenges. Wishing you a happy parenting!

Influential Parenting

Ever wondered why it seems as though your house is always on fire each time the kids are back home? Are you cursing yourself for giving birth to them that you begin to think ways to leave them and go have fresh breath? Are you wondering if this is how you will keep settling issues in your home always?

This means that you need knowledge of how to manage the conflicts between your kids. This is achievable when you know the strategies to take when faced with one. That is why this book is
here to help you. This book contains all you need to know about Siblings' Conflict. It explicates emotional and technical solutions to conflict that arises between kids. Il is a complete guide for parents and caregivers,

Managing Siblings' Conflict

It is the desire of every parent that their children get rightly educated and it is the desire of every child too. This means that there will definitely be a certain stage in the life of every child when they will have to choose the course of study since it serves as a foundation for their career development.

It has been discovered that most children get confused at this stage due to lots of influences around them such as their family members, especially their parents, and teachers. This book was written as a guide for children, teachers, and parents who all have roles to play in the process of choosing a course of study.

In this book, you will get an understanding of the roles to be played by the child, teachers, and parents. You will also get to know the benefits and consequences of choices. Likewise, highlighted in this book are the practical steps to take when your parents express their disapproval of your choice as a child and the steps parents should take in communicating their disapproval of their children’s choices.

Finally, Adedolapo shared her story with lessons you can learn and mistakes you can avoid on your journey to choosing a course of study.

This book is a must read for every child who wants to be at their best in their career, parents who want the best for their children, and every teacher who wants to see their students performing excellently at the top. At the end of your reading, you will have been armed with the right information you need to make the right choice.

Choosing the Right Course of Study

So long as humans exist, the need to get on well and along with each other can never be overstressed as it determines to a great extent the progress made as a nation, group or an individual.

Humana Necessitudo was written by divine inspiration. The author believes that it will help people all over the world overcome social vices and relate well, thereby making the world a safe and conducive place for ALL!

It covers such topics as emotional maturity, identities and individual differences, love and integrity as foundations of an excellent human relationship.

Humana Necessitudo is a must for every human being!

Humana Necessitudo: The Rudiments of an Excellent Human Relationship

The society has made it look as if the girl child is only meant to be in the kitchen or do all the house chores. 

The male child should be proper equipped for the future to enable him to be responsible and have regard for the girl child. If this is done the rate of abuse and rape will be reduced.

This is why I have put my knowledge and reports from the male child to show various areas parents can equip the male child that will be free of destructive patterns.

Train up a Child: How to Equip a Male Child Against the Destructive World Patterns

Love is the expression of the heart.  Love is a force that is stronger than death and sweeter than honey. 'The Colour of True Love' is a book designed from the river of a heart that has seen a lot and can no longer stay silent. In this book we begin to see that love is a medicine that can prevent war and cure many ills in  families, countries, organizations, and relationships but its power has been neglected. Disaster and darkness rule where people don't invite love to sail their ships. 

This book is deep and wide. This book is engineered towards opening the heart of the small and mighty to see the real intent of love. I ask you.  What is the colour of your heart? 

In this book, true love is made to be seen from the eyes of a Father whose love never ends. And indeed true love never fails nor dies.

The Colour of True Love

Year's After breaking up with the love of her Life, Cielo was ready to move on. 
She gathered the piece of her life together and started a new life. She dated a few men and she believes she was over him. The man, she never thought she'd part with. 

What is more, was that the old custodian of Maharshi kingdom had her and her fiance that they have seven life together. History was the old sage was always right but now it looks like she could be wrong as she didn't get to spend a life with him. 

Cielo thought it wouldn't hurt to make friends with him, and so her journey to the past with the letters to her Ex.
But a lot was about to unravel through this letter.

Would they be able to handle the truth? And the second chance about to be handed to them.?

Letters to My Ex

49 Ways to Get Rid of The Other Woman Without Getting Caught is a book that deals with the major issue of infidelity in marriage. The book explores the subject through the lens of a wife, seeking to oust the other woman, an intruder, who is threatening her territory.

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